I thought I would preface the serious stuff with some funny stuff.....ready set go, I am a complete goof ball, or can be if I am feeling it or lacking sleep. I like to be weird around other people, weird in the right way, one that makes you scratch your head and smile a little. I usually try to think of things to say that would potentially expand your level of awareness, consciousness, and any paradigms you may or may not have. I like to have fun and try to have fun in all situations, I enjoy laughing at myself and making fun of other people.....
I have come to the conclusion that family/children is the only way to find true happiness in life. not in a job, or a career... you work so you can eat and have a roof over your head and drive a stupid car. No. life lived is expelling out of yourself for your children and spouse. Your career will die with you as will all the things for which you work, sweat and bleed. Cars wear out, shoes do to...the future is what you can put into it and you will die. Your children will live beyond you, so do ALL that you can and put all that you can into them, because that is eternal life....ok, that out of the way.
I like to do stuff, not watch tv,or sit in a movie theater, I mean I will sometimes, just not my first choice, I like to go hiking or biking or listen to live music. Finding awesome restaurants with great customer service... I have two speeds, I am either wide open or shut off. going 100 miles an hour kicking ass and taking names and chewing bubble gum, then, when I am all out of bubble gum, I like to spoon on the couch with my dog. I would much prefer to spoon with a homo sapien female though. I enjoy all types of music except for rap and hip hop and r and b. From older county to metal, to jazz, to classical to indy rock, to drone metal.../..yeah...
um what else, what else,..
I think fast, I type fast, there may be typos... I make quick decisions, I am wrong sometimes, but I never vacillate, I make a decision and go for it, and then I may change my mind and do something different.

I find it difficult to meet women generally because I dont go to bars much or out to clubs at all, My natural tendencies are introverted and shy, I can however do a complete 180 and be very outgoing if I chose to. I tend to be in the woods alot, riding bikes, or working on bike trails, the illegal kind so dont ask me where they are :) hard to find women in the woods to be honest.
the best way to spend a sunny afternoon would be lying on the grass under a tree and listening to the wind blow through the leaves.

take a walk in duke gardens, hike umstead, ride bikes down the Tobacco trail go get some thai or mexican or good old american bar food with good old american brewed beer. Then maybe kiss you good night. I am not looking for a one night stand or any kind of hook up. I know what I want and will wait for that. I am an old fashioned man, so expect the door to be opened for you and to be treated like a lady.