OKAY just getting this out of the way to weed out the one's I keep on meeting and want to get rid of: if you have issues in your life that keep you from having someone normal to enhance yours... then please move on to the next girl! I also have no desire for someone who is full of negativity and is quick to judge others. Sorry, just needed to be said! LOL I am sure you get your fair share of women that you can relate to! :)

I am an open book and not afraid to express my feelings and voice my opinion. Most of what I say is from the heart and without the need to think before I speak.. which sometimes does get me into trouble. But atleast you always know where I am at, and you dont have to "figure" me out, or play guessing games. ITs all nonsense anyways and who wants to do that?? BE SIMPLE!! LIVE FREELY! :)

HERE is what I am looking for.....I am looking for someone who sees their partner as a partner..... sharing, giving and taking....I do love to give to my partner, I am a giver.. but I do enjoy feeling special and getting something back in return. It brings security in the relationship when you feel what you are giving out. :) Admit it!! That's a not a needy quality... YOU want it too! :)
I am generally a very upbeat and positive person, however life is life and there are times that just like you, I have a bad day. BUT, the good thing about me, is once I talk about it, and especially when I get the loving support from someone it goes away and I feel better and tomorrow is another great day! Here is a moto I appreciate: "IF YOU CAN'T BE THERE FOR ME AT MY WORST, THEN YOU DON'T DESERVE ME AT MY BEST." And right now, I have nothing but the best to give!

RESPECT is also something that is important. Just be respectful, no need for ugliness and game playing with one's emotions and feelings. It isn't good character!


I want to enjoy being together and experiencing new things through each other by combining both our worlds into one! We obviously will have our own lives that we are accustomed to, and I am looking for someone who can adapt and share both of who we are by combining them to work together.

ABOUT ME:
I love music, love to catch it live especially! I like to watch thunderstorms.. sit on the porch with a glass of wine and have a front seat view of mother nature in action!

I am a goofball and I love being silly! I am young at heart and full of energy! I am for the most part always smiling (hence the dolphin... they have those perma-smiles) :) I love to laugh (And I admit, half the time I am actually laughing at myself!

I will give the shirt off my back for the people I love in my life!

I am blessed to have a great group of friends in my life, and I have a wonderful family! I am a pretty strong pup and try to live my life healthy and happy and positive! I am a native Southern Californian, lived in Houston TX for 14 years and just recently moved back to SO CAL., and YES I love the Lakers!! WOO HOO! YOU loving the Lakers is not necessary, but watching basketball is! :) Well, ok... not all the time, just when the Lakers are playing. HAHA

My favorite colors are yellow, orange, red. Yes I have three... the colors of the sunset! Favorite food is italian, mexican, and thai. (I guess I like things in 3's) HAHA!
I love tropical flowers, the sounds of birds singing,the smell of chocolate chip cookies baking, and the warm sun on my skin.
Coffee and a blanket curled up on the couch on cold mornings... and a glass of wine, a candle or two and my cuddle buddy at night!

I love concerts, live bands, the water, camping, going to all sporting events and screaming for my team! OR even kicking back at a sports bar to feel the energy with other sports fans! Lets holler together!! WOO HOO....I am fun, goofy, big hearted and love being outdoors... I think I already mentioned that right? I guess it must be true then!


Layng in a hammock together, slight breeze, birds singing, and us... Awww, relaxing and romantic, best of both worlds!
Picnics! They are so under appreciated these days! warm Sun, our awesome sky, the movement of clouds, singing birds, the feel of the wind, rustle of leaves, enjoying nature at its finest... good food, good wine, and deffinately good company. All on a little blanket just forced to lay upon one another and talk and kiss and talk and kiss..... Awwwww LOVE IT!

OH... and I can throw and catch a football! So be prepared to play with me, and I am not afraid of being tackled, in fact, I think I rather enjoy that part. :)


I also must warn you... I love to sing!! I sing in the car, I sing around the house, I sing while taking the trash out, and watering the lawn. The problem is, I am horrible at it! But I don't care... JOIN ME!! :)


By the time you have finished this, you will probably feel like you have already had a relationship with me ... so now what?? HAHA



So basically, if you think you can handle a game of football and then lounge in a hammock with me while we both sing out of tune to our favorite songs while drinking a glass of wine as the sun is setting...then let's do this thing!! Boy, your thinking... "now why didnt she just say that and save me an hour of reading?" HAHA

OH,,, By the way...I AM now as of this month 41!! Forgive me, I tried to change it once I spotted it.. but wont let me change it. NOW I know... I could just create another profile... but I would have to find a different name, and go thru all the Q&A again, and frankly, this is just not worth it for me. SO...... I am putting it on here now for you to see, so don't hold it against me please!! If you dont mind slight laziness on my part, then we are good!
I promise I am not trying to lie about my age... I look good so why would I?? HAHA! I love being 40 something! HAHA


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I dont care what it is as long as we have a place that we can talk and get to know each other. That first impression means everything.... It's all about chemistry and compatibility... C&C baby!