I am a one woman man looking for a long term relationship.
I am NOT looking for a perfect partner but a lady who is perfect for me - and me for her. I am a realist, not an idealist. There are a few good ones left. A good tree is hard to find in a forest.

I have a caring, courteous, honest, and romantic personality, with a positive attitude in life. I am a very happy and content person and life has been good to me. I would like to have a romantic, positive, bright and predictable future. A man's love is expressed in what he does, not in what he promises.

Although divorced, I am a family oriented, devoted and loving father of 2 - a lovely and beautiful daughter in the picture with me (a 2006 college graduate and now a New Yorker) and a handsome son (a 2007 college graduate and now lives in Davis, CA). Both are on their own - emotionally and financially secure and 'off my payroll'. But I miss having dinner or doing things (movies, hang out) with them.

I am a professional, financially and emotionally secure. I am looking for a friend to hang out with, have dinner and/or coffee, converse about anything under the sun (except past relationships), walk on the beach, go to movies and/or concerts, have fun, look forward to the future, and possibly develop long term permanent relationship. One who can converse intellectually about anything.

I want to meet a lady who walked away from the past, who never looked back, and who looks forward to a bright and positive future, baggage left behind for good. I find it to be difficult to establish a relationship with one who is still harboring and wishing the past would have worked as the topic of conversation is always the past instead of the present.

I don't have baggage with me. I gladly left it at a train station (I don't even remember where) 19 years ago and never looked back :).

I always look forward to better things. My goal is to enjoy life with a very special lady. I love listening to music and dancing all night. I take good care of myself - no beer belly, no love handles, fit and trim.

I love going places (spontaneous weekend get away), concerts, coasting up and down California beaches, or just be romantic at home especially 3 day weekends (by the fireplace with a bottle of wine engaged in romantic conversation). I am not into prolonged correspondence as it builds up hype and high expectations.

I am learning and discovering wines and have visited the Temecula and Napa wineries. Next is Sonoma, San Antonio, and Paso Robles. Interested?

I love and enjoy life and life has been good to me!

Meet your parents and your children (just kidding).
Meet for coffee, ice cream, yogurt, or glass of wine in a beach side restaurant, haven fun, and converse about anything except past relationship. A woman's choice is always better than a man's choice - just ask a smart man. Edison said that a negative and a positive produce continuous energy (keeps us out of the dark) if done right - or a short circuit will occur. I know we all get frustrated when the profile and the picture do not match the person in front of you. So let's meet and see where it goes.