Hi
I generally like women that are petite, feminine and friendly. But that doesn't necessarily mean skinny and it's not some kind of requirement. Just an honest preference. Although recently I have dated some women that were taller than me and it was nice too.
I don't like to argue or fight at all.

I enjoy shopping at Whole Foods, sitting with a cup of coffee or smoothie with my lap top, shopping for and cooking healthy meals. Hiking, mountain biking, swimming and I'm just starting yoga.

I'm kind of old fashioned. I believe in acting like a gentlemen and treating a woman like a lady.
I believe honesty is the best policy and I always try to be respectful and polite. I appreciate good manners in others as well.
I enjoy my church and reading my bible and taking classes to improve myself. I've spent a big part of my life learning about different faiths, cultures and religions. I'm very open to other peoples beliefs and I would expect you to be open minded and tolerant of my beliefs.

I'm just looking for a friend to catch a movie with or go to lunch, maybe a hike or a picnic but if true love comes along I'm all for it. But I'm open to dating and a relationship. I'd also like to have more kids.

I work as a private investigator now but I've done everything from comedy writer, NYC night club owner, pot smuggler,youth pastor and traveled with a Full Gospel Tent Ministry. I even ran with the bulls in Pomplona Spain.

BTW just because I'm a PI does not mean I run background reports on every fish that emails me. I plenty of paying clients that keep me busy with work. I'm here for fun.

I have a 9 year old daughter that I raised almost all by myself. She is my main priority in my life. Everything else will be second place. She's a really great kid, a very kind loving honest person. She has never given me a bad day in her whole life.

My goal in life is to be the best father, boyfriend and husband I can be. Get more fit. Get closer to God and grow in peace and wisdom. Build up my business to it's fullest potential so I have more freedom to travel.

I like all music, mostly classic rock, jazz,

Although I spend a lot of time doing detailed research and investigations I also have a very artistic creative side. I enjoy projects and crafts with my daughter, writing, music, art, poetry.

I just want to add that I do have all my hair that's not a hair piece it's just a bad hair cut.
Also the date on the pics say 2000 but those pics are from the summer 2007. I never set the date on that camera.
Update:
Divorce is final. Big turn around in the custody situation.Things are really looking up for us!
Big update. I got custody yesterday Dec 3rd 2008 and now have my daughter 4 days a week!

You can read some of my blogs here:
http://emailrevealer.blogspot.com/
http://oppermaninvestigations.blogspot.com/

And an article I wrote about online dating:
http://EzineArticles.com/?id=1618138

I also wrote a book you can buy here:
http://www.emailrevealer.com/proddetail.php?prod=HowToBecomeAPI&cat=15

I have another big update:
Since my custody thing is over I have been concentrating on building up my business and it's getting to be extremely successful but I need help. So it would be great to find a girlfriend that has the spare time and desire to help me. We could grow this business together into something really profitable. I desperately need help as the potential here is huge.

Happy Hour, Catch a movie or go on a hike, lunch.

I'd like to meet someone with a very good fashion sense that would like to go shopping for clothes and stuff. I need a new wardrobe for myself but I also enjoy picking out clothes for girls and seeing them try stuff on for me.

I like going to dinner at Lake Las Vegas Montelago Village and the wine tasting events there.
I don't think I've ever had a bad date. I'm easy to talk to and I can get along with anyone.
Lately I enjoy Happy Hours and I always like to play hooky from work and catch a movie in the afternoon.

If we do go out, I'll show up clean shaven, nice jacket,shined shoes, probably a fresh haircut. I'm easy going. I'm polite and respectful. I won't whine or complain or be judgmental. I can hold an intelligent conversion and tell a joke. I can also listen politely.
I'm old fashioned. I'll open your door and pick up the check. Hopefully we hit it off and go on a second date.