Wow, tough crowd and soooooo serious, just breath. Perhaps everyone should take a moment to look over their own profiles and evaluate what it is you say you are looking for, next ask yourself "what do I have to offer in exchange for what I am asking?" I like a no BS approach to dating. I have dated a lot and have met a lot of really good people. With that said, this is what I have to offer and what I am looking for.

I am not desperate, nor should you be. I am not photogenic, but have been told more than once that I have a certain charm. With that said, I put dating because I am content with just dating, if I were to meet someone that has as much to offer as they expect in return, the chemistry is right,and we have enough in common, I could be persuaded to become involved. I love women and celebrate the differences between the sexes. I have many female friends and enjoy each for the special connection unique to our friendship. I find it hard to be attracted to someone that does not feel attractive. I also do not like situations with no reciprocity so be prepared to hang out and have fun giving as much as you take. I read somewhere that anything less than unconditional love is manipulation? If you believe this, we probably would not get along. I don't care for lazy people..... and all relationships, even friendships, take work and sometimes sacrifice for the person we care for.

We would get together anywhere we can discuss the journeys we have been fortunate enough to encounter in our lives.