I love to spend time in my boat fishing I also like to do gardening and plants:palms,succulents etc.,cooking cajun meals and experimenting with different recipes... my music can vary from disturbed to natalie merchant but mostly heavy rock .. i haven't had any serious relationship in almost five years..got hurt bad twice and been sorting through this life.. divorced since 95 no children / I want to meet an honest down to earth girl to get to know and spend time with.. I love to make people smile... I live alone:pet chihuahua[awesome dog]named Chance..2 outside cats.. time spent with friends is a good thing we have a closeknit gang of friends ..I am a Leo and am affectionate.... I AM. Just a good guy alone too long and was told about this...so TALK TO ME, OPENHEARTED /// P.S. updated 12/07/09 My very best friend passed on 11/21/09 also the center of "that" closeknit gang.. so be Gentle and Sincere, Please! FOR NOW Speckhead

first dates are awkward, Aren't they? ... I do like meeting new people.. i am cajun,articulate, honest and the smaller things in life are fine and appeal to me .. so i guess after chatting with someone and getting your interests would definitely help to decide an idea for a first date.