The weeding out process is so tedious. I enjoy traveling, ask me and I've probably been there. These days I prefer to keep my tourism dollars in MY country. My mother is my favorite person in the world. I'm close to my family and core group of friends. I'm a very young 40. I stay in relatively good shape, ie not a "few extra pounds" please be the same. You must pass the friends and family test, as I will certainly pass yours. Please don't be a daily smoker. If your a single mom and your 10 yr old sleeps with you, that won't work either. If your vehicle has fast food bags in the floor, move on.(Then clean your car!)

A first date would consist of plenty of talking. Get a sense of each others background, experiences, humor, and expectations. Dinner and drinks is so cliche', but it has become expected of a first date.