Hi, I have been on this website for about three months and have not had much luck meeting men I feel compatible with. I am not going to end up on the cover of a magazine, but I usually do not have trouble attracting men, it just seems it is always the men I am not attracted to. I have been told that I do not look my age and usually do not feel it... usually. I am a divorced mother of three daughters that do not live at home. They are very important to me. I am looking for someone who is not too busy for me yet likes to have their own time. I would like someone who is communicative, honest and has a good sense of humor. I have a dry sense of humor and love to joke and also have serious conversation. I like to read, go out to eat, shop at junk shops, flea markets, etc. I do not drink, but do not mind if someone else does as long as it is not overboard. I do smoke, however giving that up is probably a very good idea. I am a strong minded person and really do not do well playing games. I am 5'6"/115 lbs. I consider myself reasonably attractive. I have a very bubbly personality and I am quick witted. I feel that two people should be able to have fun together. There was a time that I thought that a significant other and a friend were two different people, but I have grown to feel that they can be the same person and that is what I am looking for. I want to be able to tell them anything and not have them judge me. I would want their opinion though and not have someone that does not have the back bone to challenge me. Everyone needs that or we quit growing. I never want to stop learning. I would not be interested in someone that is not officially divorced as I would not want to be their rebound relationship. If you feel that the "f" word is required to finish a sentence or you think that crudeness is the only way to be funny, we would probably not get along in a dating relationship. Not a prude though, I can cut loose on the inappropriate when it hits me. (not at funerals) If you are interested, drop me a line and we will see where it goes from there. Thanks for looking and email if you think there are ways for me to improve my profile. I sure could come up with a few for you men. LOL.

A first date to me would be to meet at a restaurant and talk over good food. I am easy going and not too picky about that but feel that a public place would be a safe environment. If it does not work out, no hard feelings. I am cautious about men which is often misunderstood as shy. I am far from shy.