Please be assertive if your shy. I know it's the Southern Way for the male to contact but I'm not spending my life on POF. I'm busy and may need your help! I'm here to meet my life partner and I might miss you. Now wouldn't that be a shame. NC is big. If you're local great but if not, tell me if your not willing to relocate. Many of us have familys and long time friends in our areas and don't want to move. I understand this. Just be up front please. For example, in the next couple of years I'd also like to move to Wilmington.

About me :):

I can be**** and funny. Self-assured. I enjoy exactly where I am right now and would really love to "play" life, share life, with a partner. In some ways, I'm just a big boy. A successful big boy.
My family is spread out over the East Coast but I was born in NC and kept coming back. I love it here. I have close friends but not many. I care about my looks and appreciate compliments. I accept suggestions on how to make myself a better person. I try to work out daily and look 35. I currently wear size 34 pants and want to fit into 30's(if thats possible!).
My interests include my renovations, discovery, antiques, sciences, the mountains, the shore, fishing, metal detecting, long drives to nowhere, gardening, cooking, and listening to the world.
I'm looking for a woman who has taken good care of herself. I don't expect to date a model. All of us grow older. However, I do want someone who is active. She should also look young or younger than her age. She should be stable, caring, loving, supportive and willing to take some risks. I am attracted to women who are a little shy at first, Petite women who are fit knock me off my feet. But shorter than my 5'8" is great, average in size. I like a little tummy but not what some people consider "average" on here. On the light side :), I think belly buttons are sexy !

I look forward to hearing from you...

Steve

Lets meet for coffee. Chat and see if we have chemistry going...Sometimes it takes more than one to really know so I keep an open mind. I hope you don't feel offended if I bring flowers :).