I smile when I think of you, even though I have not met you yet.

I have been divorced for 2 years and have an amicable relationship with my ex but it is time to meet some new people. Basically I'm a nice girl (most of the time) who's looking to share my life with a soul mate…(not the hollywood version of soul mate) I suspect he is a bit of a bad boy--- not awful, I'm-going-to-treat-you-like-crap kind of guy, but someone who is mature and is going to challenge me, push me to my limits and then reassure me with a warm hug at the last minute.

The right man will fascinate me but also bring out the best in me – we will push each other to be the best people we can be. The Yin to my Yang……a friend, a partner in crime a lover and if you're comfortable in your own skin, have a strong sense of self aren't afraid to expose your flaws and can laugh at yourself then I'm sure we'll get along. I love funny men who can hold me spellbound with a story or make me laugh until I cry. I also love creativity and passion. Bravery and Dragon slaying are also appealing qualities/traits for me….and if there was a scarcity of dragons then the odd spider or two would act as an appropriate substitute.

Basically I am looking for a nice, successful (that does not necessarily mean financially) guy who is looking to share his life with his future soul mate we are working towards being the best of friends - someone who is not married to his work but finds time for himself and for an “us” to flourish and develop. Someone who will find my irreverent sense of humour charming, someone who will appreciate that I act younger than I look and someone who does not take themselves too seriously. He should have a healthy lifestyle – not fanatical but healthy and balanced.

It has come to my attention that the age posted on my profile is not correct and I can't change it. As to how old I am....I am old enough to know not to answer that question...LOL *wink*

Our first date doesn't involve a chain restaurant, a roller coaster or a movie. It may involve eating, excitement or entertainment. It definitely involves me, you and a long, drawn-out moment where we don't want to say good night.