I'm an independent, hard working woman. I'm a single mother who enjoys the simple things in life (material things are great but they are not a necessity in my life). Im very outspoken and sometimes people take me as a B*tch, I'm not I just say the truth and don't sugar coat things (I'm not rude though..big difference) I live in a realistic world and don't have false expectations and beliefs. With me what you see is what you get. I can be the sweetest person you've ever met or you can see my German temper it all just depends on how you are with me. I love to clown, laugh and have a good time. A man that can make me laugh is a definite +, but I like someone who can be serious when need be.

As far as a man goes I prefer Black men, please please don't ask me why, it's my preference and I don't feel I need to explain that to anyone. I'm here looking for that one guy that is different from the rest, the one that I can feel true love with and cater to and not feel stupid for doing so. Looking for a man that can be loyal and not where I feel like I'm in constant competition for his time. I want someone affectionate and open, i'm tired of guessing how people feel about me. I like an affectionate man but not smothering like. I want a man, not a boy, I have my own little boy and don't need to mother anyone else. I want a man with a job and a car, I don't care what kind but seriously I don't expect you to take care of me but the least I expect is for you to care of yourself. I'm looking for someone that can offer me some good qualities and not bring drama to my life.

I think that covered my main things. Anything more just ask. If you feel like I ask for too much then you aren't for me.

"I aint saying that I'm requesting anyone that's perfect
but I just need a -man- that'll make it all worth it"-The One

Depends on a lot of things, like our moods, our interests...can't generalize something like that.