It has been suggested that my handle on here could be a turn-off to some; therefore, I will explain it - Ben (is evident) 4 (I'm the fourth of four sons) sin (first three letters of my last name). So, Ben is not looking 4 sin - okay!?
Updated pic coming soon, please be patient.
I don't want a wife, or mother - I can do my own dishes and laundry. I would, however, like someone to share special times with, someone intelligent enough I can learn from, but not so that you cannot learn from me - Whether I'm in a cut-off tee, or suit with tie, you would not be embarrassed to be seen with me.
My idea of romantic is standing on top of a mountain listening to the sound of leaves whistling in the breeze; or sitting on a rock watching the ocean tide roll into the sand and rocks; or holding hands as we swing on the swings on a moonlit night.
I have a, somewhat, spontaneous personality and prefer the backroads to the Interstate.
Oh! and btw, I'm not a sports junky, I would rather spend time with you than watch a football, hockey, or baseball game.
I am somewhat fit (I workout 4-5 days a week); I like to travel by car or my custom motorcycle (spontaneous weekend trips are part of my life; and, I have an extra helmet if needed); I'm not into slap-stick comedy, my humor is subtle, it sometimes takes a minute to feel it; Although I am capable of PDA (public display of affection), I prefer my (slow) dancing in private; I'm not into hunting and fishing (not the male-bonding type), though I do like to camp out on occasion (preferably somewhere that has indoor plumbing available). I like all music (execpt hard-core rap and hard-core bluegrass). My favorite musical artist is Enya. Oh! a nice swing on the swings, or pillow fight would be fun.

I will arrive in a one-horse buggy, and whisk you away to Lake Pueblo. There we will Kayak across the lake to the open trails where we will ride horseback up to the bluff to enjoy the view of the Arkansas River below. We will then make our way to Ridgeway and catch a Hot Air Balloon and join the Golden Eagles flying high within the skies. Once landed, Enya will perform live on piano and vocals while we are treated to a 2 hr Banyan Leaf Russian massage. Then home to a candlelit dinner prepared by Rocco DiSpirito, topped off with some very special dark chocolate covered strawberries. After dinner, we will kick off our shoes for a nice cheek to cheek to Percy Faith's Theme From “A Summer Place”. And then – let our imaginations run.
Or, perhaps, meet at a public park where there is a pond with ducks.