I'm a 50yr old single male, I think one way to success is to have faith in GOD, take care of your children, be a leader yet (humble) Take time to rest, play, just be your self. do your best to make responsible decisions. Work hard, Do your best to do the right thing. Never give up. Thats living!!

I think a first date is after you've met, and then see if you both choose to move forward.