**"Things turn out best for those who make the best of the way things turn out."**
~Thus this statement cannot always apply, it will make life that much more relaxing when applied~
**** knowing this site has to many filters most dont even know they have set up, well if I add you as a favorite, its because its NOT allowing me to send a message until you send the 1st message> LAME, get it?****
Where does one start, well I'm not for sale by no means, lol... & I'm not looking to score a 1 time date or make my 1st the last, so feel me out!
Theses are some attributes about myself that make me ~>ME~
~lUv em or Hate em, its all the same to me~
I’m a chilled laid back kinda guy, I have the energy of 3 men most the time, but choose to direct it in a positive sense, no time for drama!...or grumpy aSs people... :)
I was born & raised up north, from Michigan-Chicago to Canada, then hit Cali for a bit, now stable and living in Tampa.
My grandparents came from Italy, they shared a lot lUv & culture when raising me. I grew up in my families Italian Restaurant, mostly as a slave...lol...
But they took their time showing me how to use my creativity and cook up some amazing dishes, let alone how to write and think as deep as I do...
I'm total Music Whore, Amazing Chef, Classy, Respectable, Fashion Nerd, & a Art BlaZe AwaY from sharing a careless smile with a quirky laugh!
I may work hard but I know how to relax and enjoy my environment, in the last few months I've found my interest to be out on the water boating, or kayaking, hitting a beach's, listening to some live Reggae or just getting way on an Island somewhere.
I also enjoy staying in and cooking up some new infusion food, Spicy with a Sweet side is what I prefer, kinda like my women of choice!. ~DoRk~ But I love going to plays, concerts, comedy's & art shows of all types, especially fashion!
I’m interested in meeting a new soul that can meet me half way, be boldly honest, genuine, kind hearted and allow room for me in their heart, (maybe not at 1st) but down the road if we choose to roam there together. Laughter heels the soul per-say, sharing good stories & some MIND BLOWING MEMORIES. I tend to speak my emotions as I allow myself to love freely, it can catch up to you sometimes. But can be so worth it with the rt person.
Speak slowly, but think quick, bold but respectful.
Most people dont even grasp the word RECIPROCATION = Which is key and very sexy... Along with communication...
Being a friend is utter most important, there’s nothing wrong with being real, but be respectful, life goes by so fast.
I do my best to take life in a positive outlook and love making others laugh. I lUv to lUv and share such, affection is important, almost as much as the kiss itself... I’m not going to play it off, I’m not some fraught guy, I’m diverse in my taste of music, in food and life style. Life is in the details, enjoy it as if it was your last breath...
Honestly, I’m not the best at posting about myself, I’d rather a person of interest inquire & per-say ~ share with me & we’ll find our way from there....

~I cant seem to find a BOX BIG Enough to hold all the shallow women on here~
So sad, but so TRUE....
P.S. ALTHOUGH I LOVE MUSIC, MOST OF WHICH, I'M NOT INTO HICK COUNTRY MUSIC although the new wave isn't bad, & ANYTHING SO GHETTO I CANT UNDERSTAND IT! or maybe I just haven't came across any yet that sounds good enough, I'm open minded! Bring it!
p.s.
~ I am in search of a long term relationship, but I take 1 day at a time when it comes to making new friends or relationships~
We'll honestly, that depends on the chemistry between me the other person, I allow our ideas to lead us, nothing less than a good conversation, a few laughs , a joke here and there over diner, then maybe some harmonic muzz..or funky beats~
~OK, SO I'VE ADDED A FEW OTHER THINGS I THINK SHOULD BE CONSIDERED WHEN GETTING INVOLVED~
and yes it was my best attempt while being funny.....
Must not be looking for Other Relationship's, without Acknowledging what might be lost with this one! hahaa...
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter without Proper Protection...(come on, thats funny shit)
Must not be married or have a psycho ex
Must live within 75 miles from Tampa, unless you feel like driving to me! ;)
Must be Disease free... Seriously... NOT an Option!
Must be laid back, & know how to be slow at times and enjoy life..
Must live with a heart of passion
Must be open to communicating when sh*tits the fan....
Must be willing to meet me half way, such as I would for you!