I want to meet someone who doesn't think that they are better than anyone else, who dosen't want just a quick jump in the sack. Someone who is attentive, intelligent, career focused, family orientated and believe that we all are special in our own way and that sometimes differences can be compatible. I enjoy being with all walks of life and that makes me who I am, honest, dependable, loving and kind. Most of all honest. are u he? It is veryyy important that the person I am with shows respect and OFFERs friendship to the most important people in my life, my three children.

No dates to meet the ex-wife or girlfriend. No strictly what can I get dates. No one night erotic interludes. Just good conversation, innocent flirtation, relevatory conversations about our likes, dislikes and interests. I am not looking for the size of your bank book, nor am I looking for the size of anything else. I am looking for intelligence, ambition, honesty and compatibility. Take it from there. Please, definitely no ex's who have total control over your brain and certainly not your intelligence in making decisions. If you have children, I would hope if they were adult children that they would consider everyones feelings involved before they decide that they do not want you in their fathers life. Setting someone up kind of defeats the purpose, this is not about power and control, it is about meeting someone who makes you happy and that you can grow to love, not about taking over. Adult children need to respect their parent (in this case...fathers wishes) breaking up a relationship because of insecurity on their part is not right. So....make sure if you answer this ad and you have adult children, that you are able to think on your own, and that this is fine with your kids. I will not put effort into another relationship where their is a power and control struggle with adult children. He is your father and always will be and I would want nothing else. But if I have a relationship with him, it is definitely to become part of his life, and we need to respect that both ways. So if you have friends who are interested in your father, and he is not with them, why push it to prove a point. You are not hurting me, but hurting yourselves and your father, by creating mistrust. Please no one sided loyalties, no dishonest men, no bar hoppers, no insensitive adult children who only goal is to break up a new relationship out of insecurity. I do not wish to be involved with any power struggles, only to find someone to love.

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