Hi, welcome to my world.

I am a very positive,thoughtful and engaging person. To be honest, I've only been single for 9 months and am trying to get back to dating. I have met some men on this site but it has been different than I expected...a bit complicated. I had one guy email me a set of very personal questions to answer...I thought that was strange having never met him. I felt like I was auditioning for a reality show. When did just meeting someone get so complex and so impersonal? I am a bit shy at first but reveal more as I get to know someone and vice versus. I like to slowly peel back the layers as I slowly get to know a man so I can savor the moments together and enjoy the unique makeup of the person. I like a bit of a mystery. Someone who says here I am take it or leave it is too abrupt for me. I like men who are generous especially with their time and attention and are sharing and patient. I am kind and generous and am looking for the same qualities in a man.

I'm looking for a man who likes to do different things and is not manipulative. Someone comfortable wearing a suit or jeans. Someone responsible but fun loving. I like a man who can laugh at himself and be serious when he has to be and then be a tease and a lover at other times. Maybe you are this man. I would love to hear from you. A man with a light touch sensitive but heavy with love. P.S. I love to tease and care for a man.

A brief note about me: Music I like: Soft Rock, Jazz, Classical music; Favorite artists: Dido and Natasha Bedingfield both from U.K. What music do you like?

My favorite books:The Associate (Grisham--all his books, the Broker; etc.) Courses in Miracles; Angels and Demons; The Da Vinci Code and just finished The Lost Symbol by Dan Brown; Awakening the Mind by Anna Wise; all Agatha Christie mysteries. I'm an avid reader. Do you like to read?

My aspirations: to travel to the moon as soon as I can get a flight and enjoy the life. Hobbies and interests: volunteering for certain causes, meditating, and self reflection. I am enjoying the life in spirit and time. I am intelligent and fun loving and like to do some things spontaneously and like to laugh. I love to travel and have lived in Europe when I was in my 20's and enjoy visiting new places, meeting new people, and trying different food. What are your interests and aspirations? What do you like to do?


I am very loving and huggable. I love little children and animals especially dogs. I like the outdoors and walks around the lake near my home. I travel a lot, and I like it. What do you love?

If you are up to it, join me in my quest for life! Let's experience it all.

I am looking for a very loving and physically affectionate man who is kind, considerate and has finesse...a partner to enjoy and share my life. I like to focus my attention on the person I am involved and like to do little things to make this person happy after observing what makes this person happy and what his mo is.


First time: probably meet for coffee or a drink initially in a public place during the day or maybe a walk in a park. I am a very visual person so I would want to meet you first then see what happens. Please I don't want to hear about your ex wife(s) at our first meeting...that is tacky.

I like most things simple but elegant. I also like surprises and to do things spontaneously at times.

So far I've met some very nice and interesting men on this site

Must have a photo of his face without wearing a cap or sunglasses; I want to see what you actually look like which is only fair my photo shows my face and hair. Good luck with your fishing. It's fun isn't it... meeting new people?