I am a single fun loving woman with no kids.. i am a little selfish when it comes to doing what i want when i want.. soo kids would get in the way of that right now.. maybe in a few years.. when i am married and settled.. but for now.. just want to explore and enjoy life...with that being said... and from some of the msg's i have received.. i am not looking for an instant hook up.. i only have a few pics on here.. they are recent.. but like my description days.. i have a few extra pounds.. am not skinny... am a little self conscience.. but i over came my weakness for ciggarettes... and i gained some weight.. it hasn't melted off the way i expected.. and now am trying to work it off.. i want to get that out of the way.. cuz i'm sure i'll be asked.. "where are the body pics".. i don't have a car.. i got into some trouble a few years ago.. and i moved to a city where needing a car wasn't a necessity (vancouver) so i put off gettin my license back.. but have now started the process.. when i say i don't have kids.. i REALLY don't have kids.. I have no respect for women who lie and deny their children.. as i said i am here for friends.. and maybe see what comes from that.. but friendship is key!!.. I don't want to just talk about sex.. or the usual "hey when can we meet" also i read on someone's profile how ppl add them as their favorite and they have never said a word.. that has happened to me.. and i also wonder why.. i can admit.. i've browsed thru some pages.. and haven't said anything.. but for some of them.. i was a lil intimidated by the person.. so i just let them be able to see that i looked at the profile in hopes they would msg me... i know a closed mouth doesn't get fed.. but i'm new at this.. I enjoy reggae rnb.. some hip hop... and a little rock...

For a first date.. i am a little old fashioned..
do think the man should pick up the check.. unless of course i asked you out.. then its fair game for me to pick up the check.. i think a movie for a first date is a lil lame.. unless its a really good movie.. but i think a first date should be something where we can actually talk.. and not annoy people....