I wonder if 20 yrs from now we'll look back at Christopher Nolan's 'Batman' as campily as we look at Tim Burton's?

I often analyze myself into stupor. I painfully want life to make sense, and I weigh my decisions carefully. You should see me reading the menu at a restaurant like Fred 62! Too many options! ....I try to go to bed every night with the peace of mind that I hopefully did the right thing with every choice that I had to make that day, regardless of the sacrifice involved. However, life is an enigma- too precious to be wasted, worrying about "what if?" I want to wake up in the morning always looking for the next adventure, always turning over a new leaf. I refuse to die wondering about missed opportunities.
If you take care of yourself but don't take yourself too seriously, aren't plagued by an uncontrollable desire for more random 'stuff' you don't actually need, don't mind a little sarcasm even if it's directed towards you, and are passionate about love but with some self-control, then all I can say is 'I hope your message is in my mailbox in a few hours.'
I'm growing a bit skeptical of this website, but I'm not a quitter, especially when I don't hafta pay for it! So, I am going to keep looking and sending out messages until one of you tells me that you think I'm kinda fun to be around, and that I should probably stop wasting my time talking to anybody else here. Deal? I'll let you all know when that happens.....

The coffee/tea thing is getting cliche and drab to me, but nonetheless, it's still a decent option. I can have fun doing just about anything though, so I'm open for suggestions. I think what matters is that we go somewhere we both can have a few laughs, & feel better about ourselves & each other when it's over.