Hobbies: swimming 3x4 times a week, yoga,walking/stair climbing . Goals and aspirations: to find a great "fit" for a mate,become a more evolved person,and continue my success in my career and w/ my friends. What makes me unique: that I reinvented my career. My taste in music is of course what I play and I especially love the blues and soul music.I am very affectionate( P.D.A. is a good thing)and was raised to be a gentleman,so class and elegance matter to me:) My moustache of thirty plus years is now gone:) I must admit to being experimental on a sensual level. I work in head injury and pain mgt.,alongw/ all the usual musical type stuff there is. Strictly "Ivy League":)OK, small tatto discretely placed is fine:)If you've read this far; please, go to my website, Google: Frederic P Hodes and give me a listen. Please,please,please shower ,brush,and floss each day! Oh,and I'm not here to change your religion or political persuation,but I'll discuss those things. Mostly,I'd just like to share roughly the same value system regarding issues of integrity and compassion. So here is a hint ,Ilove dogs and kids:) I'm liberal , others may do as they will,but the conduct of my life is fairly conservative,"staight is the path and narrow is the gate"!

I live on a lake w/ a view that people travel the world over for w/ gas grills and a pool, so I think that would be the perfect site:)Not wedded to this ;because,women figure they'll wind up cuttlets in Jeffery Dahmers' freezer. The first thing you'll notice about my home is that I have a very small freezer compartment:)But God I do hate the bar scene since I rarely drink. Guess I just like hearing and being heard:)