A little about me...
I am a man with no 'delusions of grandeur'. I am who I am, past womanizer, past doormat, above average looks, and experiencing an epiphany borne of longevity. I've had beautiful and brainless, and brainy and plain. I am looking for beauty (inside and outside) and intelligence; devoid of deceit.

What am I looking for in a partner?
I want a woman who has experienced the ups and downs of good and bad relationships, but now wants to settle down with a man who wants to be with her only. I want someone who does not mistake kindness for weakness. Someone I can talk to, listen to, and do for. I know when I'm being played, so if you have ulterior motives, move on. Come to me only if your motives are clear, whatever your motives might be.

PLEASE DO NOT RESPOND, if you are unwilling to post or, at least, supply a photo to someone you are willing to chat or make a date with.

I'd just like to add...
Don't say you want a good man and forsake him for the bad boys and/or pretty boys who treat you badly.

I'd like to meet in a public place and have coffee and/or a meal while we get to know each other's personality. If we are mutually impressed, perhaps we can extend the date or make plans to see each other again soon.