Well I am a 31 yr old single mom with four kids who r my world.I have been single for almost two years now and very recently discoverd that I have been letting my past dictate my futher...I kinda think that I may have let something that might have been good for me pass me bye because of the fear I have for love after losing what I thought was the Love of my life..I now realize that even though we have a fear of things that may or may not happen its not worth the risk of letting something good pass me by...So here I am trying to start a new life for myself even though its scary..I now no that I want to find someone special if he's out there..Someone who is willing to get to no me for who and what I am..I want an equal partner in life and if possible no drama or no games just honesty and trust...I don't want to rush into something but I would like to explore the possibilty that it could lead to something nice and fun..absolutely no expectations

I don't think a first date should be planned I think u should poss meet up and go from there...