Hey, guess I'm getting more mature when it's not about the sex appeal as much and more about what she can bring to the table.. someone I can seriously build with.. anyhow.. whats good? I'm 34.. father to a beautiful daughter.. I work full time and also a homeowner so thats a constant project itself.. I like working out.. 5 x a week.. I use to weigh 350 lbs so I made the commitment 2 the lifestyle change.. i successfully kept the weight off for 3 yrs. I love hip hop, r&b for music.. love football n basketball.. baseball only when its not football season.. i like to hang with my boys.. be outside so I'm not in the house since I'm stuck in a cubicle for 40hrs a week.. I'm a beast in the kitchen too.. guess being single would do that.. anything else.. please get at me.. ttyl!

My 1st date would be something involving activity to stimulate conversation.. a good 1 on 1 to pick each others brain & discover if there's such a thing as eHarmony.. lol.. 2nd date may be a home cooked dinner if you're nice enough.. ;)