Let me start by saying I don't really want to start nothing that couldn't possibly turn into more thow.just want a friend first,ya know.id like to find a strong independen,that isnt intimidated by a strong independent girl,I prefer a guy with kids,I love to see a good daddy.Ive been a massage therapist and esthetition for the past 5years and love it.I work for myself.I like live music outside on a hot sunny day or at the Cain's.anything from Cross Canadian Ragweed to Mudvayn and Rise Against.I have a passion for good food and cooking,i'm not a big drinker but don't mind if you do as long as you can be responsible with it,I know I try to be..I'm really into tattoos and the trial of getting one..I would prefer someone with them,or can at least accept the fact that im nowhere near done myself.accept me for me.its a real bummer when the one think that keeps someone from getting to know me is only on the surface.a tattoo parlor makes a great date.jk.lol..I have 2 kick booty kids (4 and soon to be 10)that have a great daddy they don't need a new one.lol.i'm not on here looking for one of those,they could always use a friend.i need someone who likes me for who i am.Someone who is not intimidated by strength and drive.someone who wants to laugh and smile with me(u need a smartass sence of humor).at least try to be positive with me.lol.i'm really into my health love to work out and enjoy a man working out with me(its a great way to spend time together,teach me something),but i have my bad habits too...You dont have to look like Arnold to kick it, but the way you care about you body and health says a lot about the person you are on the inside,its a reflection.its a life style.take me for a walk,4wheeling,to drive some golf balls,batting cages,or bike night.what a great first date.Im a pretty fun gal but treat me like the classy unique lady i am and i'll give you all the respect in the world...i prefer the outdoors to a movie,i'm a child at heart.im a good sport that cares more about everyone getting a turn then winning.love affection and being playful.so if you think your up to it,lets give it go,make me laugh.im too old for games but love a new friend,im very understanding and try to always be open minded and nonjudgemental.hope to hear from you...thank you