Here we go........I'm a 80's girl and former metal head (i have the pictures to proove it too!) so I love the 80's rock music, also like R&B, The Dead, Pink Floyd, the Eagles, and good ol boys like Johnny Cash, Waylen Jennings & Willie. I enjoy going to concerts (love watching live music), watching movies, hanging out with friends, spending time with my neices and nephews, cooking, thunderstorms, football Go Bears!!, laying on the beach with an umbrella in my drink, taking walks, cuddling, romantic dinners, long talks just laying in bed, surprise parties, hugs, the collor pink, and Behind the Music on VH1. I also LOVE to travel.....fly, roadtrip, whatever....as long as there is an adventure. As you can see, I have lots of "loves" in my life, and those are just a selected few. I enjoy my life to the fullest because I know we are all here on borrowed time, and I dont plan on wasting any of it. I try hard not to sweat the small stuff in life, cause thats what it all actually is.....Small Stuff. My theory is that if you spend too much time worrying about what your not getting, your probably missing out on the best part and it will pass you by if you are not careful. Im not one of those "damsel in distress" high maintenance women here, but love to be romanced. I am not a drama queen and i am not looking for a drama king, as i un-packed my luggage a while ago and I am just looking forward to what tommorow will bring me. I am a very independent, fun loving, outgoing woman. I know what I do want from a man but more importantly what I dont want. Not into games or a player so if you are a shallow man, a mean man, or pretty much just an ass(and you know who you are) then keep on looking. I love to laugh and I usually laugh the hardest at myself. I think laughter is the best medicine and I like to do it all the time. I own a screwdriver and a wrench; and much better, I know how to use them. I have a great job and a good income so Im not looking for someone to take care of me. I am looking for my equal, someone who I can "click" with again, the person that I love being with, and I cant be without. I have been looking for you for a long time, and I havent given up hope, I know your out there, and I cant wait to meet you! Sounds cheezy, yes, probably does, but what good is me being on here if I am not honest about what I am looking for.

I am confident, but definately not vain (there IS a difference); I am generous, but do not let people take advantage of me; I am funny but not obnoxious, and people tell me they love to be around me. I will love and protect the person I am with, but am not a jealous overbearing person; I give 100% in a relationship; and expect 100% back. It will be effortless to be around each other, and time will stand still. I have been divorced for 10 years now, focusing on my career, family and doing some traveling since then. I am very at peace and happy in life right now, but would like to meet someone that i can develop a deep friendship connection with first and then effortlessly flows into a relationship. Is it possible??? I guess we will have to wait and find out.

My motto.......LIVE, DREAM, LAUGH, LOVE. Are you interested in comming along for the ride?? Lets talk.

Whatever and wherever we are both comfortable. What is a "good first date"? Does anyone really know??? Im up for suggestions, but there must be good drinks and candles. ;)