Must have the following before writing:

1. A job and be able to support yourself
2. A drivers license and car
3. Some motivation to get of the f-ing couch and do stuff
4. Your own life and want someone to share it
5. If you have kids you must be a good dad and for god sakes see them


Bonus:

I would love to find a best friend to spend the rest of my days with, however I am not looking to get married again or have any more kids I am getting too set in my ways. I am looking for someone who is mature enough to not need a mommy to take care of them, but who can handle a little immaturity sometimes A.K.A FUN. I would love to find someone like me. And lets face it I need to find someone I have a spark with too!


Some things to know about me:

1. I have a super fun awesome job
2. I have a car and drivers license
3. Have a child who I have full custody of, but I am not looking for a father for my child (that would just be a bonus).
4. I have a good life, great friends and would love to expand that to include ?? Maybe you??
5. I am motivated to do things especially if I have taken time away from my child to spend it with you!!
6. I smoke when I drink so get over it or move on.
7. I only run when chased and even at that not very far, lol. I am not in bad shape and not over weight just not a huge fan of running.
8. I am not looking for someone to change me just accept who I am, because I am nice, sweet (when I want to be), have a great since of humor and have a lot of love to give the right person.

Other thing to know:


I am always up for new adventures and looking for someone to share them with. I have a very harsh and sarcastic sense of humor, and sometime swear like a sailor. I might look like a girly girl, but am a total tom boy! I not only love to cook but I like to camp, spend time at my folks house in bend, fishing, hanging out friends, bbqing, sitting around the fire pit having wine and listening to music and going dancing.

Meeting for coffee or a drink just to get to know each other and see where thing go from there.