| |
Profession Computer stuff
Do you want children? Undecided/Open
|
Interests
|
About Me
First things first; my profile is NOT required reading. I will not quiz you on it. Skim it, ignore it, or comb it with a microscope.. its for your benefit.
I LOVE smart people. There are many varieties of smarts and I have yet to find one I didn't like. If you're talented or have pursued excellence, tell me about it (shopping doesn't count).
Good conversation, hanging out with friends, people watching. Im mildly humorous, humble, argue gently when necessary and am quick to admit Im wrong once realized. I think very little of what people say about themselves in their profile to be indicative of chemistry; and while that word is the topic, chemistry is not a synonym for 'attraction', which is how most [ab]use it. Chemistry is the side of me your personality brings out, and who in turn the side of me you brought out, brings out in you -- and how we then interact. With some people, you'll feel interesting, engaging & funny. There are people who nothing but complain in life or focus heavily on the negative. Don't just be around someone you CAN get along with.. but someone who brings out in you the side of you that you want to develop. In other words, be careful which seeds you water, you might regret the garden you grow.
People always choose such safe topics on their profile. These things are about defining your character. Your identity is NOT contained in the simple pleasures we all appreciate -it is however, contained in the positions you hold on controversial subjects. Your character lives within the paradoxes of your views.. and the stance you take on DEBATABLE ISSUES. If you want to experience the validation of being liked for you who are, define it through the contrast of how you're unique. Some [real] ways of knowing someone is to witness them going through one life's many trials or observe how someone treats others whom they have power over. Identity is expressed in the choices we make.
Im not going to 'woo' someone I don't know. If I seem like I might be interesting, and if I wrote you it means I thought you were too, lets just meet.. That's where it begins.
If you don't know how to improve something, don't criticize it... I don't care if you're late, as long as I don't miss my flight... No matter how thinly you slice something, there are always two sides... Hear me out before you reject my idea... There's a difference between putting your best foot fwd, and hiding that you're an amputee...
*Spelling is the virtue of the dumb.* *Punctuality is the virtue of the bored.* Ideas are what smart people talk about; not people or events. Questions expose motive and intellect. Inferences are more valuable than assertions.
I'd write more but, I am le tirrred.
kindagoofyLA has 2 roses that can be sent.
Add to favorites
|