I'm an active man.running 2 businesses,but still play basketball and pool I am a leader in my buddhist org. I have 4 grown sons,I'm so proud of them all. I love the beach,amusement parks,fairs and swap meets. I love to laugh and make others laugh too.Positive motivated people are my inspiration and my goal in life is to leave a positive effect on the people I meet. My choices in music are old rock,new country,and jazz. Looking for a woman that cares about life. It's the heart that is important. After two weeks on the site I feel more about myself is needed. I grew up and still work in San Diego. Was married for 30 years, now in divorce process. It's over! but some of you would say I have "baggage". But I believe everything happens for a reason and I'm finding that reason. I'm a man with confidence in myself and who I am, with enough inner strength to stay clean of drugs, alcohol, and nicotine for 20 years without outside help. Friends say I have a ready smile and great sense of humor. I'm a one woman man, who knows how a lady likes to and should be treated in every way. I'm not into games or lies! I've always been active in sports and way above average in most physical things. Am still very fit with no health issues. My friends and co-workers are amazed at the things I still do with ease and my youthful nature and spirit. Would like to meet a attractive youthful lady with an average or better shape, as chemistry and appearance go a long way in beginning a relationship. I am ready to move forward in my life. To love again like I've never been hurt!

Dinner, a concert,a drive along the San Diego coastline at night. some hand holding,some hugging, and a long kiss goodnight.I'll be your humorous gentleman for the evening, then we'll see how we both feel about our future.