Hello ladies...I love that phrase from Capt Jack Sparrow...lol...

I do find it fascinating that the first question I get is "What ethnicity are you?" Is it really that important?

I am here because I want to know if there is anyone else out there who is sick and tired of being sick and tired...I just want to keep this simple...not looking to serial date nor am I looking to get married tomorrow....No one nite stands, and my playing days are long behind me....Am looking for chemistry...you know...that all-important yet ever-elusive intangible aura that exists when two people meet and nothing else matters....alot of things in a relationship can grow and develop...but chemistry isn't one of them. Finding it...and hanging on to it has been quite a challenge...so if u r feeling adventurous then by all means drop me a line...

If you like Enigma, Delirium and Massive Attack...love Lasagna and French toast (both of which I can make...quite well I may add)...and have an adventurous spirit lets chat....

Don't worry...I don't bite...promise

Please live in NYC...sorry Jersey Girls...I luv ya but need someone closer...

Also...if all of your pics are with you and your girls at some club/bar...please move on...I go to bars/lounges, but my social life does not revolve around them...not my scene and it doesn't matter how adorable u r...I can tell u right now u aren't my type....let's not waste each others time...

Keep it simple...somewhere we can dine without going into debt....speak without shouting....maybe dance if we want to...and enjoy some good Sangria or a bottle (or two) of Spanish Red...as long as u promise not to take advantage of me ;)