Im a young single new mother who's had her heart played with too many times. I want someone who can be my best friend, not just my lover. Someone to enjoy the good things in life with, who knows how to truly LIVE. I love to sing and would absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE to make a career out of that, but only time will tell if thats whats meant to be. Before i got pregnant i was working on joining the army and still have that on the table to pick up after my daughter is at least a year old, but who knows what could happen between now and then. So for now im just working hard on trying to get things going on a good level so that i can be the best mom i can be. Ill be happy with whatever God has planned for me, and Lord knows i never saw my little girl coming along, but i have never felt so blessed in my entire life and i have faith that God will show me the way to where i belong, its just my job to follow where he leads. :)

im a laid back girl whos very open and honest. if you dont want the truth then dont ask me the question..i dont believe in sugar coating. i wont intentionally hurt your feelings, im not a b****, i just dont see the point in lying...ever. i love sports, cant play worth a shit, but i can really get into the game! i love seeing new places and trying new things, just wish i could afford to do more...but that will come one day :) im as real as real can be and dont believe in doing the typical dress and look pretty put on a front for the first date and then let it all out later on. im just me and thats all i know how to be. i want a man whos the same way, i dont judge, we've all made our mistakes and we all come with a past.

i want someone that knows how to embrace that and love me anyway, someone who pushes me to be more and someone who lets me do the same for them. isnt that kinda the point of a relationship? the way i see it the one your with should be your best friend, your lover, your toughest critic next to yourself but your biggest fan as well. you should compliment each other and always push each other to do more, be more but be there to catch the other when they fall, not run away b/c its too hard.
i come from a red neck military family, so needless to say i have a sick sense of humor and defitnitely dont get offended easily, sorry if you cant handle it lol. my family is the most important thing to me, if thats not for you then dont bother, you'll just be wasting your time.

i want a man who can stand up for himself, but dont think you can control me. someone who knows what he wants AND goes after it (most forget that second part for some reason...) dont lie to me, dont string me along if im not what you really want, b/c once i fall thats it...im ridiculously faithful, and will work through anything, i dont believe in giving up and quit is not a word in my vocabulary...and i hate the whole getting over him after its done thing..it sucks and im so sick of it.

but you gotta have a sense of humor cuz im a goofball and i can make anything into a comedic experience and why not? lifes too damn serious all the time, ppl gotta learn to take advantage of the time we have here and make the most out of it! ill warn you now, if you fall im so laughin at you, but i laugh at myself too. im not the kind of person who does something embarrassing and then tries to run in hide as my face turns red, hell no im totally makin a scene and makin sure everyone gets the full effect and at least smiles about it later on in the day when it randomly pops in their head again. i want a man who can relax and enjoy all that with me. :)


so ive rambled on so much that i really dont know where to go from here, so if theres anything else you wanna know, just ask...dont be scared!!! i dont bite...hard ;)

Im not one to really go for the "typical" date, who wants to sit in a dark theater and ignore the person you're trying to get to know? And why in the world do would i want to make a mess and give the opportunity of embarrasing myself with a fumble at dinner in a fancy resturaunt??....Im a kid at heart, so anything where we can let loose and just have fun definitely gets an A+ in my book. comedy clubs, roller coasters, race cars, games, things of that sort, thats what wins my heart. just plain creativeness, and something thats just not typical...i hate coloring in the lines. :)