Ok, time to re write this because what I originally had really sucked!

I am a 44 year old father of 4. My youngest two still live with me but my baby is 18 so if I want to go out I don't need a baby sitter. A chaperon sometimes but not a babysitter. I work as a supervisor for the Transportation security administration (Yes the TSA. No jokes please!) Working for the federal government can be a nightmare sometimes but it is a good job with decent pay and great benefits. I work 4 10 hour shifts at this point but they are about to switch us to 5 8s. Some of my peers hate the idea but it's no big to me. It's nice having 3 days a week off but 10 hour days are so long.

After work you can find me kicking back watching my favorite TV shows, Ghosthunters, Ghost Lab, NCIS, a comedy on comedy central, even Nickelodeon, or messing around on Facebook. Either that or, more likely, doing housework or fixing this or that. I live in a manufactured home and it is nice but it needs some work. 7 more years and it will be paid off though! Tuesday through Friday I usually go to bed early because I have to get up at 3:30 to go to work. On the weekends it is usually a different story though.

On the weekends I like to go hiking, camping, head down to the beach (Laguna is great an night!) or ride my Harley to where ever. I also like eating out though it's no fun without a partner, so I haven't gone out lately, and this winter I am going to learn how to ski! Kind of excited about that. My friend has a cabin in Running Springs we have been working on all summer and as repayment for all my free, hard work, he is going to give me a key to the cabin and teach me how to ski. Should be real fun if I don't kill myself.

I can dance but I am not a club type person and I enjoy 80s and country music. Politically I am conservative in a lot of ways but as I get older I am finding my opinions are changing. I believe in ghosts. I've seen one (no I'm not crazy and I wasn't on drugs!) and it's hard not to believe in something you have seen with your own 2 eyes. I also believe in life on other planets and I have seen things that make me wonder if earth has possibly been visited by space aliens, I do not however believe in alien abduction! I'm not that wacky.

I am an intelligent and logical person but I have adult ADHD which can be somewhat of a pain in the ass sometimes. Especially when I meet someone for the first time. This is why I can be a shy guy at first but I warm up quickly if we click. I am also known to say dumb things on occasion, especially when I get nervous so if you decide to go out with me PLEASE get to know me before you decide weather you like me or not. I am a very nice guy. I promise!

I am looking for a long term relationship with a woman who will accept me for me and that I can be myself around. A woman who loves to talk, does not have a lot of baggage and is basically drama free. Someone who is in touch with who and what they are and who does not play games! If you think you might be the one for me, lets go out and see where it goes.

I prefer to keep it simple. Lets go have a Starbucks and see what happens.