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(TEMPORARILY SWITCHED MY SELECTION FROM "LONG TERM" TO "FRIENDS," as I recently experienced a powerful loss and am in process of adapting to that change. -I'm doing okay enough but am going at a slower pace to make sure I'm selecting a special someone for the *right* reasons.)

Fair warning: I am playfully bratty most of the time so remembering that is key...
Sooooo, I seek to meet tall, athletic and trim, sincere, witty, young looking, broad shouldered hot men -with great hair...sure...I want it all! Welllll, why not? hehe I'm a girl who KNOWS what she wants! (Narrows the search significantly but it doesn't make it easy to find.) ...Well hey guys, help me out here, hmm? Tell me why do so many men chop their hair down to almost stubble -or worse, shave it all off? :( That leaves us with nothing to run our fingers through! (Though I truly wish it wasn't the case, having little or no hair means that no matter how great a guy you are, I'm not gonna be attracted unfortunately. -It isn't fair I know, but we're just not in control over what heats our blood.) ...Yep, a man's hair is one of the stronger elements of his sexiness to me, and I do like 'em sexy -RAWR!


The simplest things can make me happy. (Life has lots more nice, small moments than it does the big ones anyway.) I'm versatile as a sporty, adventurous, reliable and supportive type who enjoys both spur of the moment stuff and setting some plans in advance (so there's also something to look forward to.) If I ask how you are, then I *do* care about your answer, so pleeease don't just give me fluff stuff. :P ...Oh! -And I want you to be an animal lover...my favorite happens to be cats but I definitely like sweetie pie dogs too. :)


Hmm...Tough Love Rule #1: Anyone interested in dating me should be respectful. Treat me as the high priority that I deserve to be, and not as an after thought. -Really, don't take me for granted when you know better, because I'll just move on. However, if things are well established and I know you care enough, I am more understanding and accommodate most conflicts as they arise. (But if it starts happening toooo frequently -affirming that I'm NOT a high priority- then refer back to Rule #1.) .....You can rest assured that it's a two way street here. -I *will* equally respect any man that I date.


Ok so...I want a steady b/f to spend time with doing whatever we feel like together, but also know that it's not a big deal for you to be enjoying a little "me" time without getting any grief for it. (Yup, for real.) And if you're one of those few who make it past my challenging list of what I want in my guy, then you'll be happy to find me easy going about most all of the other day to day stuff. (I know PHEW!, right? haha)


Even if others do, *I* won't be waiting around hoping for you to pick me if you're juggling several girls. Wellll...if I'm not the only woman a guy is setting plans with, then we aren't clicking well enough to continue. Sure it's ok to hang out for a short while but our mindset should ultimately turn into exploring the potential of a future together. ...For my part, I always know super fast if a guy is someone I'll want romantically anyway. If I don't immediately see/feel any sizzle, chemistry WON'T grow. My hoped for guy isn't expected to be 100% perfect (none of us are!)...he's just close to perfect for me. :)


Did you remember I'm often a BRAT? -Engage in some fun word play and you'll make me a happy girl. ...Play with my hair while lounging around watching a movie and I may even melt. :) ...Although I do like to be playfully witty most times, I'm also a deep thinker and a sincere, loyal person as well. Mmhmm, with me you get to have a little bit of everything! :)

Soooooo...what are YOU all about? C'mon...spill it...tell me tell me tell me! -I really do wanna know. :)


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Fun stuff!...but really it's best to first meet without having a "date" label on things in my opinion.
*Translation: paws off unless we BOTH want contact.*

Something with an activity in it can be cool, though I'm open for suggestions/possibilities since I'm comfortable in most situations.

(Actually, do men even take women on real dates anymore? All I've seen in men's profiles are them trying to be sure they have a quick exit immediately handy.)