First of all, don't add me to your "favorites" when we haven't even talked. I don't get that. I'm in search of a woman who's a friend and a companion. Someone with whom there's a mutual physical and mental attraction, and a lot of chemistry. Race and age are unimportant. You don't have to be perfect cause I know I'm not. I just want to share some things in common with an openness to trying some new things together. I can have fun doing anything(as long as I like the company I'm with), and I have a great sense of humor. I'm honest, loyal, trustworthy, affectionate and romantic (with the right person). I like all kinds of music including rap, r&b, jazz, reggae, pop, rock, and latin. I like action, drama, thriller,sci-fi, comedy and scary movies. I also really like anime. I'm heavy into sports and follow both college and pro teams. I write music, poetry(extremely dark), and I'm trying to write a book. I have a daughter who's over 18 and lives out of state. Anything else you want to know just ask. I hate to do this evidently I must. If you're going to leave me a message, you must have recent pictures of yourself that show more than just your face. What's recent? If the pictures were taken over 2 years ago they are old and don't qualify as recent. Then pictures should not be taken from a half mile away. If there are other people in the picture with you, you need to point out which one is you. And just giving a "good description" of yourself doesn't work. You can have 2 women with the exact same height, weight, measurements, and clothes sizes and they can look totally different. I hope I haven't offended anyone or hurt any feelings. We all know looks aren't everything but come on now, we also know they still count for a whole lot.

I'd like to a very relaxed place for lunch or dinner. Somewhere you can take your time, sit and talk for a while(even after you eat), without feeling you have to hurry up and get out. If the conversations really flowing, maybe go for a walk or somthing like that so we can continue to get to know each other. I don't like going to clubs, bars, family picnics(believe me it happens), etc. on a first date cause it doesn't allow you to talk to each other. A good first date should always leave you wanting more and looking forward to the next time you talk or go out.