See.... the way I see it is, no one really cares about the about me section... common now let's just be honest. If there is no attraction, people can care less for the about me section. Yes... I can say I am a good guy, honest, caring, funny, outgoing, creative, romantic, christian, a gentleman but unless attraction is there, all those things do not matter now do they? Now if there IS attraction on the other hand, well by all means let's chat and get to know each other :)

Now some may say this is shallow... but is it? If you see a guy you are not attracted to across the room, will you approach him in hopes of him having a "great" personality? Attraction brings us together, personality keeps us together.

Take a nice long drive to the coast, walk by the ocean, smell the fresh ocean air, let the wind blow through our hair, board a private yacht, sail over to Hawaii and stay for a few days, stay up every night and watch the sun set.... oh wait... first date? ummm.... Conversation over some coffee? :)