I love all water sports, tennis, working out, golf and traveling abroad although my passport is getting dusty now, LOL! I am in network marketing for a new patented product...XOCAI Healthy chocolate and have a huge passion for it! When it changed my life physically, I had to get involved. Additionally, I am signed up to start back to college in the Spring in Nashville if all goes as planned. If not, I can revert to 'plan B'. LOL.

I have a son at a boarding school in NY (Junior in HS) that comes home every 6 weeks for a week, then will move home for community college after graduation and then off to Miss. State to finish. My daughter (13) is going to a school in Nashville presently as a boarding student so I will be moving there ASAP, hopefully before Christmas. (She doesn't like being a boarding student and not having much family time at all! I don't blame her...hence the move!) Until then, I am in East Tn. just awaiting the changes to occur! They are awesome & very respectable mannerly kids and just needed/wanted more than they were receiving in public schools here. They have proven their abilities to overcome adversity and I am a VERY proud Mom! It's all positive and awesome. I am a happy upbeat person and am seeking the same. No players please!
I am unfortunately NOT a country type girl but do love the outdoors. I don't hunt, hike, camp or fish (except for deep sea fishing) but will help you pack up and go w/your buddies! I am both a super feminine size 6 athletic built girl mixed with enough tomboy for the best mix. Breaking a nail or getting my hair wet in a rainstorm doesn't phase me! LOL. I laugh a whole lot and need a partner in crime that is positive, stable emotionally, financially, mentally and spiritually. I can't deal with 'created' drama and have had enough for 10 lifetimes! No more! My 'dream guy' would be one who takes care of himself physically but not obsessively, can laugh AT himself and WITH others, no tattoos, multiple marriages or are/were unfaithful. Heck...it's just my wish list but I am picky... as we all should be. You'll also receive the same in return, without the 'guy' part that is...ha ha! No one should ever settle for less than they want in ANY facet of life! Not looking for perfection by ANY means....just perfect for US! I drink in moderation and don't ever want to feel a hangover again in my life...had enough of those in college, ha ha. Love traveling, entertaining and just kicking back enjoying life. I love kids so being a 'bonus Mom' (if applicable) would be a plus. I guess this is enough to give you some insight into me. Would love to meet someone that is willing to work through things as opposed to just bailing out due to bumps and bruises that hit everyone on occasion. It seems easier these days to get a divorce than to 'complete the entire walk' down the aisle, ha ha! If interested, let's chat and take it slow. Would also love someone who would be supportive of my new biz/school ventures and be positive...I know what I got into and am not great at handling negativity! I will promise to do the same for you. Isn't that the way it was intended anyway, ha ha?! Later.

First date would obviously be somewhere public for safety reasons. I have found enough insanity in this world and don't want/need to place either of us in an uncomfortable situation. Second date if all goes well, would be an afternoon of golf and then dinner on the grill with a couple of adult beverages. Not a golfer? We can think of something else...I'm pretty creative! I think spending an entire day together would allow us to learn a lot about one another and see if we have the chemistry to move forward. Date #3... who knows?! Shoot from the hip and be spontaneous!!!! Also, I am a trusting person by nature and only date 1 person at a time to have the opportunity to get to KNOW one at a time. This doesn't equate to 'exclusivity' unless mutually decided. You can do what you please and what works best for you. Just remember that trust is huge for any relationship including merely a casual friendship so never abuse it please! Best to all...I mean it from the bottom of my heart. God didn't intend for us to be alone forever.