I like to make people laugh. I look for humor in everything. I believe everything in life reflects your attitude towards it, I keep mine positive. The last time I was mad, I was married!

I am a BBW, a big, curvy, voluptous woman. I am sexy, sensual and secure with who I am. I am also dominant by nature, raising 3 wonderful sons alone. All wonderful grown men, married, two of them in the Army. I couldn't be a more proud mother. I love all three of my daughters-in-law!

One of my favorite hobbies is photograpy, especially the ocean and sunsets. Writing is one of my passions. I hope to be able to continue to persue my goal of completing a book.

I am a very open minded person, I do not judge others. I usually don't even read the profile of someone in chat, until later. I like to get a feel for the person myself first, then see how they describe themselves.

I was a bartender most of my life, I learned three things during that time, don't discuss (right away anyway) religion, politics or music!! ( If you want to keep a person as your friend! ) And as far as sports goes, how about them Yankees!!??

I love to share everything, my thoughts, feelings, things I know a lot about. But I am also a good listener. I am not a drama queen, I am even a bit shy at times, but open up with talk and time.

I must admit, I hate first dates!! I like to make it as simple as possible. Hello, how are you, lets have coffee, hugs, perhaps a kiss and end the first date right away with all the silly 'first' things out of the way!! LOL This way, we can start the second date right away.