Love is giving someone the power to break your heart, and then trusting them not to.
Please note. I am being as honest as I can be here and I would expect the same from you. I have indicated my height and body type. I am a big and tall man. That does not mean athletic or a few extra pounds. I have been losing weight very quickly, but for now, I am a big guy...mainly due to some health issues I had last year that are no longer of any consequence (details available upon your request). I am not "sloppy fat"...I have a belly. I am only about 400,000 salads and 1,000,000 crunches away from being eye candy. If this doesn't fit into your immediate plans for a "boyfriend", "significant other", or whatever other label you wish to attach to someone, please think twice before contacting me. (This is my subtle way of saying....I am a fatty...chubby chasers welcome.)
I am a romantic at heart. I have had great relationships in the past that were halted by some unfortunate situation. The reasons are irrelevant. I have never cheated or been violent or had any addiction that caused a breakup. I am focused on my son and hope to expand that focus to my family…whenever it happens that I am blessed with one. I am loving, caring and supportive. I am emotionally available. Communication is the key to any successful relationship and I will not settle for lack of or poor communication. It takes work to be able to communicate about everything, but without it, the relationship will fail. I have a great sense of humor which can be sophomoric, silly, sarcastic and at times inappropriate. I find day to day life to be very funny. I prefer to laugh at failures and learn from them rather that lament over the anguish of those failures cause. I am a good father. I have a 13 year old son who lives with me most of the time. His mother is in NY and he spends his Summers with her. I work retail, so my schedule is erratic.
I am looking for a woman that loves me despite my faults and flaws. A woman who is a good mother to her own children who will be receptive to my parenting techniques as I will be to hers so that if we ever make a home together, love is predominant and parenting is unified. I am looking for a woman who has her own baggage as I have mine, but will not let it rule our relationship. We all have made mistakes and been hurt...I’m not them and you are not my past...we are each others’ now. I am looking for a woman who wishes to get married someday...I was, and I want to be a husband again...this time I want to do it better...mainly because it will be with you. I am seeking a woman who is as much into every aspect of the relationship as I am...physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.
HERE IS THE KIND OF MAN I WILL BE FOR YOU:
When you...
...walk away from me mad.. [I'll follow you]
...stare at my lips.. [I will kiss you]
...push me or hit me.. [I'll grab and not let go]
...start cursing at me.. [I'll kiss you and tell you I love you]
...are quiet... [I'll ask what's wrong]
...ignore me.. [I'll give you my attention]
...pull away.. [I'll pull you back]
...are at your worst.. [I'll tell you you're beautiful]
...start crying.. [I'll just hold you and not say a word]
...are walking.. [I'll sneak up and hug your waist from behind]
...are scared.. [I'll protect you]
...lay your head on my shoulder.. [I'll tilt your head up and kiss you]
...steal my favorite shirt.. [I’ll let you keep it and sleep with it for a night]
...tease me.. [I'll tease you back and make you laugh]
...don't answer for a long time.. [I'll reassure you that everything is okay]
...say that you like me.. [I know you really do more than I can understand]
...grab at my hands.. [I'll hold yours and play with your fingers]
...bump into me.. [I'll bump into you back and make you laugh]
...tell me a secret.. [I'll keep it safe and untold]
...look at me in my eyes.. [I won't look away until you do]
...say your missing me.. [I know you're hurting inside]
...are heartbroken.. [I know the pain never really goes away]
...say its over.. [I know you still want me to be yours]
...are mad I'll hug you tight and not let go
...say you're okay; I won't believe it, I'll talk with you because 10 years later you'll remember :)
...are bored and sad.. I'll hang out with you
-I will stay on the phone with you even if you're not saying anything
-I will never let you have the last word (I am flexible on this one.)
-I would never presume to believe that I love you more than you could ever love me
-I would always argue with you that you are the best girl ever
-I'll wake you at 12:00am on your birthday to tell you I love you.
-I'll kiss you and tell you I love you before you sleep and after you wake up
-I'll tease you and let you tease me back
-I'll stay up all night with you when you're sick
-I'll watch your favorite movie/TV show with you...even if I think it's stupid
-I'll give you the world
-I'll let you wear my clothes and even my shoes
-I'll let you know you're important to me!!!
-I'll kiss you in the pouring rain
-when you run up at me crying, the first thing I'll say is; "who's ass am I kicking today, Sweetie"
Ladies...here is my advice...read it and do what you want with it...
"Wait for the boy who calls you BEAUTIFUL instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat. Wait for the boy who kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world when you're in sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends. Who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup. Wait for the guy whose favorite place is in your arms. One who is constantly telling his friends about you and who looks at you and says, "That's her."
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