I can't be bothered with thinking how to sell myself in the best possible way so here are some facts:

I smoke cannabis on a regular basis.
I play computer games, watch films/tv shows, piss about on the computer.
I go out occasionally and get pissed with mates
I'm quite an intelligent bloke with a number of geeky interests.
I read books.
I like Metal music.
I'm not what you'd call "exciting". This is probably caused by the first item on the list.
If you're a person who loves constant fun and games I'm not your man.
If you like nothing better than just hanging about the house and chilling out with only the occasional trip to the pub then I'm your man.
That said, I do enjoy actual activities and days out if there is a stimulating focal point. Going out just to "chat" with other folk doesn't really appeal to me.

So there we go...

God knows, depends on the woman really. I guess I'd keep it classic - go for a meal, followed by a drink and then whatever.

That said, I'd much prefer to just meet at either mine or her house for a drink/film/etc. evening but either works really