Let's get real...first off you probably aren't going to read this any way...first you are gonna look at my pic and decide whether you think I am attractive to you or not...then you are gonna look and see that I have kids, and decide if you can deal with that or not...God forbid the baggage not like you don't have any...then you are gonna look at the distance and decide if it's worth driving that far or not...so all this being said, yes I am very upfront, and don't beat around the bush...lifes too short to play games...so I will put a brief description if you wanna read...otherwise nice knowing you...don't let the door hit you on the way out!

I am very affectionate, and loving, not clingy or needy just love to show affection! My kids like most of you are my world! Although I put most of my time and effort into them I would really like to find that special one to share my life with, and complete the whole circle!

When it comes to my interests in music, movies, food, I don't know that I have a preference, cause I love all kinds! All depends on what I'm doing or what kinda mood I am in! Not to hip on grunge or anything with screaming and not understanding what the hell they are saying though!

Although I probably don't do it as much as I need to I love to work out! There is just something about being fit physically that makes you feel better!

I guess you would say I am looking for someone that is not afraid to show a little affection, safe to say don't want any cheaters or liars, who does! someone who is understanding, and caring, can go from beauty queen, to grease monkey at the drop of a hat! LOL! Ok not grease monkey, but not afraid of getting a little dirty sometimes!

I am no expert in sports, but I love playing basketball, football, bowling, swimming, and would be nice to have someone interested in going a little one on one!

Holidays...Gotta love them, maybe not every single one, but the major ones yes! If at all possible I love going all out, if it's christmas I will find every light I can, Halloween, nothing funner than making a good spook house, Thanksgiving, nothing like getting together with the family and having a good time, anyway you get the point!

Ok, so for the most part I love life, indoors or outdoors doesn't matter! Spring, summer, or fall or winter, to me you can have a good time playing ball, or on the couch watching a movie, it's all in the company you are with! If you are with the right person, then laying back and watching the stars can be a magical moment!

I don't want to be on this site forever I know there are still some wonderfull caring women out there, I just want to meet that one and share the rest of our lives together, love, compassion, caring, no mind games, no cheating, no golddigging, no headaches, just two people commited to each other until the end of time!

First dates are very critical, usually they make or break the whole future! So best to keep it simple, meet somewhere for a drink or something where both parties could leave in their own vehicles if necessary! If it goes well you can always take one car somewhere else until the evening is over, or just take a walk and talk to get to know each other better!

As long as the date is going well, it would all then depend on the company, and the type of day or night, cause we could always go bowling, or skating, or walk in the park, or out to a club, or shoot pool, water park, possibilities are endless if you just keep an open mind!