How's it going? A little about me. There's too much to tell in this little blurb but we'll start with the basics. I'm 30, a BBW, 5'4", green eyes, light brown hair, and a smile that doesn't stay away for long.

When I manage to get a day off, which doesn't happen often, I like to just hang out with my friends and family, play the Wii, read a good book, watch a movie, or listen to music. I'm a huge music-holic. I listen to just about everything although I tend to gravitate towards music that makes me want to shake what my Mama gave me. I love something with a good beat.

I'm an optimist. I always want to see the good in people. I refuse to admit that there are fewer and fewer nice people in the world. I believe that a smile can make someone's day. Man I sound like a greeting card don't I? In any case, it's all true. I have no secrets. My life is an open book for all to read. I believe living honestly is the only way to live in this world. I would rather be honest with someone and hurt their feelings than tell them a lie and run the chance of having them find out the truth later and being more hurt by it. I genuinely care for others. I try to do my best no matter what I'm doing. That's the perfectionist in me.

As for my life, I want to have the whole family and domestic thing. But I'm by no means in a rush to get to it. It'll happen when it happens. For the time being I'm just trying to be the best I can be at whatever I'm doing be it my job, or my relationships with friends and family. I love the simple things in life. I love it when a guy picks a dandelion and gives it to me. I'm a firm believer in it's the thought that counts.

Well I think I've given you some insight into me, so tell me about you! Drop me a line and we can chat. See where this roller coaster takes us!

Good luck with your search!

A first date should just be something ultra casual. No pressure, no commitment, no worries. Get together for a drink, coffee, shoot some pool (You'd win because I REALLY suck at it and I pretend I don't, but watch out for flying cue balls, seriously...you'd better duck), just whatever! If you don't click, cool, you move on and if you do then you can move on to something more intimate.