This isn't my most favortite thing to try to do, so i kinda feel like a used car salesmen. Go a head kick the tires and look under the hood. I promiss it was only driven on sundays. So enough joking around on to the real stuff.
So here we go i will give it a honest try but I am a true believer in seeing is believing. I raised two kids to adulthood alone and think i did an ok job. I am not a perfect person or parent and really don't want to be.
i am told that I look younger than my age. If i do or not is a fact that is of no concern to me because i like me, I have come along way from the girl I was when I was someones wife. I think i take pretty good care of myself. i will never be the next big model, but i don't think beuaty makes the person anyway. I am a good person and friend and that is want is important to me.
I am not looking for ken so i don't really need to be barbie right... true. i am told that i am very sensual and sexual. Human contact is very important to me as i am a people person and a flirt, it is really one of my main needs for a happy excistance.
I like to think that I am not a high maintanace female, but still love to be spoiled a little by the right guy. I must admit that i am not like the normal 40 plus women. I still like to be active and do things i did when i was a much younger girl. it is said that if you stop moving you start dying well i don't plan on the dying things anytime soon. so if you have a sadate life style i am not your girl. I have no problem being home and doing what needs to be done. However i don't do the homebody thing on a continual basis well.
The key to happiness is family good friends and laughter so please look for me where they are dancing until thier feet hurt and the laugh until they pee.
I have many intrest and willing to try most things that have nothing to do with high places,I hate bugs but getting dirty isn't an issue. I love to sit by a fire enjoying a good red wine just chatting or enjoying the closeness of who i am with. i like to be out making a fool of myself just enjoying life with friends and know that i am still just that women i want to be. I don't like liars or cheats and can be honest to a fault. I am to old to play games. If your looking for a women who likes to laugh and loves the simpler things give me a chat.
life is to short to sweat the small stuff and waste time to worry about wouldda couldda shouldas so just do it and live the life you want, take that chance you might just make a friend. I promiss it won't hurt a bit.
guys I'm looking for the full meal deal here, I can get a happy meal anytime.
What this means is i want my friend my love and my partner in crime to be one man who i can tell anything and not worry about judgement and he will get the same from me. So if my best friend is out there please come find me i miss you terribly



P.S. this is for those guys who seem to have a problem with a women my age still having a sense of self or senuality. this does not in anyway say i am just looking to get laid. so please don't come at me with disrespect and say want to be my booty call, and if you do at least spell it right. I will treat you as you treat me, so give it some thought before you write.

i believe the first date should be easy, after all its to get to know each other. So meeting at a coffee shop or simple meal. you don't have to try and inpress me with things, however nice they are its you that i need to see. once the inital meeting is over with and if we servive the first impression thing. We can see where things may or may not go from there. I am a big girl and do pretty much what i choose to without the regrets or excuses of youth.