I am looking for friendship right now, not trying to jump into a serious relationship but also not looking to date many men at the same time. compatibility is important and also honesty and diversity is a must. I'm kind hearted and gentle with a hint of spice. I have a daughter who is 23 and just had twins. I'm independant and not a needy person but I am a lady and enjoy being treated as such. I love all kinds of music but my favorite is oldies, jazz, and blues.

I would be myself, maybe have a casual lunch or dinner, something quiet. Maybe just grab a cup of coffee or a coctail. PlEASE NO BOOZER'S! lol! One or two drink's will do. :) I like to lay things out on the table right of the bat, so please dont be afraid to ask.... I won't! lol. No really, I think its important to be honest right from the start, If compatibility is not there...it will not work. Attraction is a great feeling but not at the expense of true happiness. That can only come from within...