I'd like to Thank those who have reached out to me and didn't take an extra minute to read what I had to say.. First off, I am not looking to babysit..Therefore, those lil' young ones need to stop watching "Cougar town" and stick to "Saved by the bell" reruns.. Second, Those who feel they need to post shirtless and Muscle pics(HA!) perhaps you should go audition for next season's "Jersey Shore" and stop the madness!!! The recently seperated and married ones, don't bother!

Now...Back to the Important stuff..


I love making people smile, I play well with others, have fun with just about anything and am a fan of laughter. I appreciate the simple things in life and respect those for whom they are, NOT what they have. I am the Genuine/Loyal, Giving,trustworthy, friend that expects nothing in return..A simple smile is enough for me:) The compassionate one, that can be silly at times, but always there ,no matter what...I Respect your Individuality, Interests, and will not judge you...I recognize the beauty that resides within.. Although there is always room for improvement..I am who I am, and will never sell myself short for those who cannot handle it.


I'm not your average scorned or bitter type that lives in the past...The best lessons learned are from life experiences. In three words I can sum up everything I learned about life..."It goes on".......... I believe that The trust of the innocent is the liar's most useful tool, therefore, the only games I participate in, involve cards/ boards..I prefer leaving the mind for stimulation and charge rent to those who take up unnecessary space in my head.


Aside from the occasional roadblock, I am in a place in my Life where I am ready and open to develop that Special relationship again..I have my flaws, but who doesn't...Our imperfections not only make us Human, but Perfect:).I'm as Human as one get's..I shed tears, Feel pain, bleed red and have a lot of heart. I also have my moments and can be stubborn and Bratty at times too:) ..
My interests are diverse and will try something at least once (within reason) Twice, if I like it...I do believe it's not what You are doing so to speak...But the company you keep that creates momentum. I'm a firm believer that communication is the core to any type of relationship along with Trust, Honesty and Respect.


So many have asked what type of guy interests me... Well....Unless you are Ben Affleck or Tino Martinez..continue to read.lol


Respect, Honesty, Communication and Morals go without saying...

A man of intelligence, warmth and spirituality. One who is open and honest with his emotions and comfortable with his place in this world. Well rounded, Witty, Sincere and ambitious who can have fun with just about anything, has a great sense of humor and lives life for today......And can make me smile of course:) I admire Individuality, confidence, Sincerity and open-mindedness..
Someone not afraid to get his hands dirty, Mature, but still has some kid like Qualities(silliness, toys, hobby's etc) and loves his jeans and sweats....But...also looks adorable in a suit:):)
Looks are skin deep...The incomprehensible is the most Attractive:)

I am not looking for someone to Entertain me so to speak, but I do get bored quick. Meaning...If a conversation doesn't flow, there is no need to proceed any further.



Turn on's: Intelligence, Personality. Ambition, Compassion and Nice eyes/smile
Turn off's: Rudeness, selfishness, Arrogance, The Pretentious and Estranged type, and those who mistake kindness with weakness...

Although I find it Flattering, I am not looking to date man in their early twenties(AKA..So called cougar hunters..HA!) or mid-late fifties... Just a personal preference Guy's, no offense.....

I'm not into emailing a "bazillion' pictures back and forth either...What you see here, it what you get..I don't have time for that mess.

Quality time conversating over coffee or a drink...Emails and Im's are not very personable.