I hate this part of the process. It just seems like everybody writes the same thing - it's so generic and you have to wonder if these things are true and if everyone is so great, why are we still alone, right? Why haven't all these great people found each other? Anyway, just a little rant to get this going - LOL! I really am a very laid back, easy going, kind of go with the flow kind of person. I work hard and I love my weekends. I can get into just about anything. If the Yankees or Heat are playing I can sit and watch a game once in a while, but I'd much rather be at the stadium or up front and center on the Court. Don't get me wrong I'm not a huge sports fanatic but I do enjoy these 2 teams. I like to dress it up and hit the town, a nice blues or piano lounge will do or we can just hit the park and have a huge BBQ with our family and friends, a little touch football, dominoes, a hammock tied between 2 huge trees, music, food and drinks and we're good to go. Family and friends are very important to me and this should be important to anyone I'm with. God is the center of my life and if He's not yours, He should be. You'll be a better person for it. Would love to find someone to share my life with, travel and enjoy life's gifts. I have no children, but I love them and I don't mind if you have 1 child, preferably over the age of 5 so we can do fun stuff with him/her, but if she/he is off in college - even better! :) Not interested in your baby's mama drama, so if that's your situation with the ex, please move on to the next lady. I am very drama-free and would like to keep it that way. I love to travel and wish I had someone to do more of this with. I've been to Greece, Mexico, Vegas, the Bahamas and a few other places. Not nearly enough though! I enjoy most music, dancing, bonfires, my concrete jungle NYC baby (my home base), movies, wine, house parties, board games, Broadway musicals, reading, working out, shopping, etc... Did I miss anything? I'm sure I did. If you are honest, sincere, giving, passionate about life, love, family, have a big heart then you're the one I'm looking for. There's a lot more I can say, but where's the fun in that? Please, please, please, if you e-mail me, please say a little more than "I enjoyed your profile" or "hey sexy". Come on guys, seriously, what is that??? At this stage in our lives, we really need to step up our game in the dating arena. I believe I've made the effort and given you a glimpse into my world. Therefore, please do the same for me. If your profile is light in content and you send me a one line e-mail, please do not expect a response from me. I promise I will reply if there is enough in your profile and e-mail that arouses my curiosity. But if you don't make the effort, please don't expect me to. Fair enough??? Thanks and I look forward to hearing from you!

First, I'd like to get a feel for a person through a few e-mails and then on the phone. If that's working for us, we should meet somewhere simple and easy like a coffee shop or somewhere on the beach would be nice.