I am looking for someone who is interested in having fun, who is honest, and doesn't play games. I enjoy most all activities especially when I'm with fun people. I like to joke and laugh and love to learn different perspectives about life and people and culture. I have been at the same job for 20+ years and have been divorced for almost 5. I have three kids; two almost grown and one half way there and I own an OLD drafty house. So between work, kids, and home I am kept fairly busy. I love music and feel its important to turn the radio up and sing really loud (preferably alone) on a daily basis; only not to anything that twangs or bangs.

What would I do for a first date? Well assuming I'd never met the guy, I would want to do an informal dinner or a drink or a walk - something low key where we could break the ice and see if we are mutually interested.