Well..this shouldn't be this hard, but sometimes it is....the words are easy to say, but the actions are harder to come by. I am looking for someone to share the same interests with me, but is also open to explore new ones. Someone who likes to talk as well as listen. Someone who can make me a better person just by knowing. Someone that I can make better by knowing me. Someone who can laugh - at amusing things as well as at themselves. Someone who understands that at this point in our lives, we all have pasts and have made mistakes, but are better because of it. Someone that I can get dressed up with one night and then hang out in comphys and a ball cap the next. I am a pretty open person and get along with everyone. Just looking for that spark to start something. Just looking for a best friend as well as a lover. Someone to hold hands with laying on the couch or walking around the mall. Someone who can make me smile, even if they are not even in the room with me.

A good first date is meeting for coffee or drinks and just talk. First impressions are somewhat important to me and spontaneous is good too.