so this site has been not so great... where have all the nice guys gone? Seriously, if I wanted to find an ***hole who only wanted sex id go out to the bar!

my names Jess, about to be 23 and honestly I don't know if I'm even ready to be in a relationship. I'm VERY independent and I have been since I was 16. I have lived on my own forever and don't expect any handouts.

I'm nothing to special just a girl who goes to school, work, and takes care of a kid. I get to go out and be a normal college kid every so often but lately that lifestyle just doesn't appeal to me.

anyhow I'm really here just for friends, and people to talk to. But MAYBE I could find that one person who could actually make me want a relationship who knows.

if you want to know more send me a message. sorry if it takes me awhile to respond back

going on a walk, getting some ice cream or something. or somewhere where you could have a good conversation. The key to a good first date is a good conversation without it I loose interest.