Self employed, fairly assertive lady is actually an old fashioned lady fringed with a few modern twists. Attributes such as honesty, monogamy, morals, loyalty and dedication to loved ones are very important to me and I see them as deliciously appealing when found in others :).I am a lover of nature ( the ocean is particularly intoxicating ), animals, music, art, dance and I must add I also find the charm of a true gentlemen adorable as well :).I have a romantic, sensually erotic nature that hankers for a charmingly romantic, erotic male wife that can appease my appetite and with whom to share life's adventures. I seek the fit of longevity that is not meagerly based on looks but rather more on that rare intriguing connection of two minds, spirits that tends to move both parties to celebrate that decadently yummy gift physically. Yes..I am a lady that passionately enjoys the path leading us there almost as much as the arrival :-). If that connection comes or is found in a single chat or born from multiple get togethers I don't know nor will force it to adhere to any social norms. I am really annoyed with how the most basic need for all has grown to be so complicated, I prefer it simple so for those that approach please keep it real ..we should all hate the games as it wastes BOTH parties time and efforts ( no matter what a player thinks with every game he/she is cheating him/herself out of life).
After receiving quite a few emails and chats on here I felt compelled to add to my profile as many didn't seem to acknowledge or get a feel for what I seek and what I am not open for.
I am not into the mass dating scene, breaking bread with aesthetically attractive strangers until I possibly luck up and find a match is not an interest nor my idea of time well vested in seeking my life mate. I signed onto the site to utilize its far reaching capabilities... a place to set up my beacon in the hope that it will reach and maybe tickle the interest of my Clyde. He'd be a very passionate man,love or aspire to cook well (will always have my attention in his favorite apron puttering around the kitchen lol), capable of having fun at home in a water fight or at a function where we might sneak away to play an impromptu game of hide and seek what feels deliciously good, he is comfy in jeans or suit and brainstorming with him will be nothing short of an cerebral orgasmic adventure....he will always be my distraction when are apart.
Lets see..
He will hopefully be a touchy public displays of affection kind of man, a very loving man who is very selective in with whom he invests his personal time as he values life, knows who he is, what he wants and more importantly respects that you only live once and refuses to settle. He will passionately enjoy appreciating his partner fully and is capable of reveling in her appreciation of him. He will understand that while sex is fun it can't compare to the sincere physical celebration of a healthy, passionate, romantic loving connection that inspires so much more than a meager romp and will never take that for granted rather feed it as a priority. He will be an ambitious man who will enjoy setting and achieving goals as a couple as we build our personal shangri la. I don't seek perfection as that I'd find that boring but I do seek my "fit", for if it is indeed a good fit it is equipped with whats required to weather the roads of longevity.
While I tend to say "to each their own" ...please respect that I hold no interest in such encounters as hookups, meeting to just meet, online pic swapping, men who are separated and getting a feel for the market, men who find a physical attraction enough to meet, lesbian encounters, group sex, extra marital affairs, men who have no idea of what they want but will see what may be etc. If you are a man who can't or prefers not to express yourself nor have a desire for me to express myself in text and phone chat as well to get a more elaborate feel for what we seek and how we crave it... please pass me by. Yes I am an erotic lady with a libido that might rival most males but that is apart of who I am not exclusive of all the other attributes listed and certainly erotic does not equate to shallow nor promiscuous so no I don't want to see nudes or watch a guy perform on cam just because its available.
I am not the type to subscribe to Redbooks "the ten faux pas of dating", won't be flipping my hair three times and giggling to attract anyone...I don't care much for such social norms. If I encounter love at first sight or love after an elongated stroking of the minds, in my back yard or on the other side of the world it will be a rare and appreciated enough treat ( at least by me) that I will be mostly concerned with it being sincere and if so fill my creative thoughts with how we can delight in celebrating it. Don't get me wrong I am aware it is indeed a rarity to find that yummy fit but I think its primarily more rare for all the BS and nonsense that abounds when people try to play with one another and refuse to respect another as they themselves want to be respected...so why complicate and hinder fulfillment ...keep it real and create a better chance of finding what we all seek ...as we all desire it.

Lets just try to get a feel for one another via chat and calls a tad before we think about going there(should depend on the person and how and if we connect ...