Remember the nice pair of shoes you bought,cause they looked fantastic and were a in style brand name every body else bought and liked. But wow they killed your feet and you hated to wear them.That's what going by a persons looks is like.then you bought a nice comfortable pair that looked good and you wear them all the time cause they just fit right.So be wise and go with the heart.

I'm an Italian male who is funny, compassionate,romantic,passionate, and very loyal. I am a Security consultant Plus work partime at Mickey D's where I have been the head French fry guy for 7 yrs..So if you need some fries. I could hook you up lol. But really I'm kidding about the mickey'd's. I(teach people and business how to avoid being a victim of crimes and how to be safe in all Surroundings, more info on the bottom of my page) I have my college degree in criminal justice and psychology. I enjoy helping other's by teaching. I love romance and the passion that only comes from the connection of two people very in tuned with each other. I believe to many people don't put enough into romance and passion.Its the little things like a kiss on the forehead or grabbing her hand while you walk into a place or just to tell her how pretty she looks after a long day.Now my bad points I’m stubborn at times and pout .lol But deep down I'm very compassionate and loyal. But most of all I'm very fair. I do believe that true love and passion comes from inside. Plus since when is chemistry about looks, I believe it's about substance and elements. While I know people say looks count and sure to a point they do, but don't you think some people put way too much into it. When did looks kiss you? Or hold you? Or hold you tight when you were sad or happy. We truly need to look deep not only into others, but our heart and see what really matters? because deep down looks or money will never be who that person is inside. Don’t get me wrong looks are nice, but they can never be the only thing to go by. Because truly they only play a small part in a relationship. The world is full of good actors. Who think they are fooling people by who they are outside. Only the person really knows who they are inside. Looks only last so long...And if you're just looking at someone for there looks or money. How do you really know if they are looking at you for you or who your might look like or have. Even good looking and rich people have problems. After all go look at a psychologist’s office You might be shocked at who goes into them. Work on your inside and you're personality. Earn you're own money...Build you're own dreams. You’re integrity, honesty and word are something nobody can take from you. I think too many people give up on relationships without trying everything they can. I’m not talking about staying in one that has abuse of any kind, that will cause harm to other’s But when you care about people you should try remember none of us are perfect, nor should we be. To me if the good out weighs the bad its worth trying. Just like your dreams, you must fail before you can truly move forward. Most successful people failed many times before making it. My motto on that is “There is no failure, only delays on the road to success”
I treat others how they treat me until I see its being abused. I do 100% believe we teach other's how to treat us by our actions and what we allow them to or not do. At some point we are no longer victims, but willing participants.Plus a just a thought ,but sometimes we attract how we act. Our actions attract and what we allow others to do to us also attracts certain types of people,so we need to take a look inside us to see why at times we get treated a certain way,not by any means saying getting treated poorly is right. . Also is change not good if it makes you a better person. But I do choose to be positive in life. Think about it a rose is very beautiful to look at and smell, but right below its Thorns. Which do you choose to see? Why be negative and be in the problem. It's much better to live in the solution. Very into romance and passion with the right woman. I think it's my personality and values that set me apart from other guys. I would love to meet the woman I just can't live without. We all feel pain and we all feel joy. So don't act better then anyone else and don't play with peoples hearts Good or bad it’s our actions that paint our picture. Also is change not good if it makes you a better person. But I do choose to be positive in life. Think about it a rose is very beautiful to look at and smell, but right below its Thorns. Which do you choose to see? Why be negative and be in the problem. It's much better to live in the solution. Very into romance and passion with the right woman. I want a lady who is not,shallow,or selfish to people , who wont play games and is compassionate to others. She doesn't think life or someone else owes her. If anything in life is worth having work for it. How do you truly know what person you might miss by not getting to know the inside.Each person has different taste of who might or might not be good looking. So be real go for the inside. I want her to be able have dreams and to go for their dream. I want one strong in her opinions, yet be able hears others too. One that will put all she can into love. But I truly think these are things a person who cares about their self would like in their mate too. I pretty much am just like this and think its the only way to be.So please be real if you write and ready to be friends with a man who does care about others. And does value people’s feelings, hopes, dream s and their opinions 100%. I'm open to friends first, but want someone stable in their mind too. Getting to know someone should be about showing interest. I am very romantic and love everything about it it’s a lost art to some. Whatever happen to the romantic dinner by taking your lady out to a Wendy’s or Taco bell and saying hey baby you order anything you want off the dollar menu and please don't worry about the cost. Then picking a few flowers in someone’s front yard to give to her as you walk her to the dollar movies. Hopefully she won't still be hungry or want a drink. Since you were so giving at the dollar menu...;o)
My hobbies are racing which I have done since 5 1/2. Racing sprint cars 12x.

Well we could go to taco bell and split a taco and glass of water lol or if your sweet your own drink...;o) .Or maybe even going to Wendy's and I would really spend big and let you order anything you want off the dollar menu.lol and maybe even a Lg drink to..After all its our first date and I want it to be good.But really a perfect date would have to happen in my eyes after you already know each person. Then it could be planned together where both people include something both would like to do. I would hope on this date there would be walking hand in hand, kissing and just really having fun. Plus I think a very casual conversation where both are able to open up and talk about anything is very nice .But then again cooking her a very nice romantic dinner and eating by candlelight. Then slow dancing by candlelight would be nice while I sing one of the songs I have written might be nice too. Or a nice ride in the country. But honestly one where you looked at her eyes or touched her hand you got warm inside would be very nice too.Keep in mind this is after we know each other. Romance mentally is very nice. Just be yourself and a casual easy going first date is always nice. I think showing your paying attention to what she has to say and truly caring is very important. I believe in treating the person your interested in like she's the only girl in the room, after all its why you asked her out right?.Or a walk in the park with Miss Savannah(my dog) .Maybe going to watch me race or even a nascar race.Horseback riding or maybe a comedy or jazz club.I do still believe in not only romance but soul mates . My Favorite quote "If your going to pee like a lil puppy,you can't run with the big Dog's" Life is short make time for what's important. You get just what you put into things . We are all unique in our own way.Having fun is great too,but so is being real.

Just a fast note to you ladies. Most all of you have info in your profile that could help a stalker find you..Not trying to scare you only help you with some advice..Please use common sense when you fill your bio out..Putting down where you work,even what high school or College you went to can lead a person to you..Remember people can read these profiles or info on it to find you..While its your right to put what you want on your profile,But please be careful and use common sense. There are a lot of freaks out there besides just me...lol Joking of course about me that is..Please feel free to ask me any questions you have..I do Security consulting for a living. Thank you to everyone who added me to your list and I hope to make a lot of great friends and network friends also. Be safe and always keep a great mind set