I really want to meet someone that I can spend some time with, go out and do something to have fun, or curl up on the couch and talk the night away. Movies, walks on the beach, hockey games, board games, dinners with friends, karaoke, dancing, and maybe even take in a concert.

I love to take in the world around me and appreciate the things that some people don't even see. The leaves changing on the trees, beautiful wildflowers along the road, the sound of rain, the first quiet snowfall, the sky and clouds, the warmth and snapping of a bonfire.

After being married for 20 years, I ended it because not only was the love gone, I was lonely in the marriage. I'm not looking for a pen pal, I'm looking for someone to spend time with, to get to know. Even if a long term relationship doesn't pop up, we've met new friends to share life with.

My profile says I'm 46...but I'll let you know that everyone seems to think I'm 35, and I feel more like 25. I love to laugh and make others laugh and have fun, to tease and be teased, to live life to the best of my abilities.

Oh, and by the way....if you're just looking for a quickie, or sending naked pics....or phone sex.....please keep on going....not interested.

A first meeting could be anything...coffee...movie...talk on phone...there are so many ways to get to know each other.