Hello, I am new to this site,what I am looking for basically is to find someone to date and hang out with, I am not going to rule out a relationship, because sometimes our heart overturns our mode of thinking, in a nutshell I am open to bigger possibilites. Yes I do have kids, I have one that will be graduating May 2009,one already in school,and one who will be entering thier senior year in the fall, so I am not looking for help in that area.It's my time and I want to make the best of it,I don't want to just jump into something to say I have a man, that's so cliche',I have reinvented myself to be the woman I am today and I am not going to just give myself and heart to anyone, I deserve better, so in short my motto is "Can't no anybody have me".If you are feeling what I am saying, by all means talk to me,lol.

This is the part where I am baffled, why do individuals say thier date will consist of a walk on the beach, holding hands, etc.,etc.,come on guys be real or get real,I think the first date shall be based on your conversation, prior to the date and pretty much feeling each other out, to determine what you both shall enjoy,but keep it open and in the public's eye(lol)